British Virgin Islands (BVI) - Caribbean to Fit Your Style

By Amanda Sauer

There are places you vacation, and then there are places that feel like a second home. For my family, the British Virgin Islands is that place. I’ve been heading down there since before I was old enough to hold my own snorkel mask. This recent trip for my mom’s milestone birthday (she’ll claim she’s 36, but I’m halfway to 100, so I leave math and jokes to you) reminded me exactly why we keep coming back.

The Island Hop

We’ve done it every which way over the years: villa stays, hotels, and every type of boat imaginable. There is a certain nostalgia in remembering the days of cramped porthole bunks shared with my brother as the monohull rocks us to sleep with no air conditioning. But whether we were roughing it then or enjoying a suite on a power cat now, the islands keep calling us back.

The reason we gravitate to a charter over staying on a single island is freedom and flexibility. A five-star resort is great, but we prefer the adventure of a charter. On a catamaran, you get a different sunset every night. As I’ve grown up, the "iconic" sights have started to feel smaller, more like old friends than big landmarks. So, we’ve changed our strategy. Instead of hitting the highlights, we follow the wind and hunt for private coves. We wake up to rain, we move to the side of the island with no rain. Every trip feels like a new adventure that way.

Classics and Hidden Gems

While the classics like Saba Rock, the Baths, and The Bitter End are still the heart of the North Sound, the next generation has officially made their preferences known. My 6-year-old son fell in love with Oil Nut Bay. Tucked on the windward side of Virgin Gorda, it is a quieter, more laidback pace. We docked overnight so he could conquer the water trampoline and the pool table.

When we moved between anchors and moorings, we found the true magic is in the detours:

• Peter Island: Once an unspoken secret, the island has a bay that is the go to for quiet mornings and fun with the toys. Whether it is hydrofoil, water skiing, wake boarding, scuba bob, tubing, or snorkeling, it is the ultimate aquatic playground. While the hiking trails have grown over for land lovers, the rugged terrain still offers a true off the beaten path adventure for the explorer at heart.

• Jost Van Dyke: Most people stop at White Bay for a drink at Soggy Dollar. Do that, but then opt for Sandy Spit. It is a tiny, postcard perfect ring of sand just off the island that makes you feel like a castaway.

• Anegada: If you are into sailing, this is the destination. Whether you are out for world class bonefishing in the flats or sitting down for the legendary lobster dinner on the beach, it is worth the trek to the sandy furthest island.

The Pro Move: Thanksgiving in the BVI

We have done New Year’s Eve at Foxy’s and Santa arriving by dinghy, but this recent Thanksgiving trip might be the new favorite time to visit. The islands feel calmer in November, and the water coming off the summer heat is noticeably warmer than the refreshing temps you get in the Spring.

Our 6-year-old officially declared the trip a success. Between his first time snorkeling and jumping off the boat, he learned two of life’s most important lessons: we are, thankfully, not allergic to jellyfish, and the exact physics of a perfect bellyflop.

Choosing Your Perspective: Hotel, Charter, or Yacht Collection?

The BVI is my sailing favorite, but your choice of stay is more about travel style than thread count. Hotels, private charters, and cruising, all offer a premium experience, but they serve different souls.

The Private Charter: For the Privateer This is for those who want the freedom to change plans based on the tide. It is a lifestyle of barefoot luxury where the real talk includes:

• The 90% Dry Rule: Between the humidity and the salt air, your towel will rarely be 100% dry. It is part of the charm of life at sea.

• Conservation: Space is the currency of the catamaran or private yacht. Water is limited in supply, you want the hot tub filled, that's extra and showers are efficient. Trash needs to be mindful and is picked up daily. Soft shell or duffle bags are essential for easy storage in cabin lockers.

• Flexibility and Adventure: BVI weather is a mood. You will have brief, intense rain showers that pass quickly. If the wind shifts, your plans should too.

The Yacht Collection or Small Ship Cruising: For the Hotelier at Sea If you prefer a more space, five star environment, the Four Seasons Yacht, Ritz-Carlton Yacht Collection, or Explora Journeys are the perfect fit. These are essentially world class hotels on the water. They offer perfectly pressed linens, 24/7 climate control, and a more structured social environment, all while waking up to a new island horizon every morning.

The Resort: For the Grounded Traveler For those who want a fixed point of luxury, resorts like Mosquito Island, Oil Nut Bay, or Rosewood Little Dix Bay provide a stable, high amenity base. We are also loving Lovango Resort & Beach club in the USVI. This is the best choice if you value a world class spa, diverse dining on site, and amenities that keep the next generation entertained without the logistical constraints of a galley or cabin.

The Crew Poll

On our last night on the charter, our crew had us each pick our favorites. It is a great way to summarize the trip. Here are mine:

• Favorite Spot: Sandy Spit. I forgot how much I loved playing in the waves and hanging out on the white sand beach.

• Favorite Meal: Fresh sourdough bread at every meal and the squash ravioli.

• Favorite Drink: The passion fruit mojito.

At the end of the day, the BVI isn't just about where you stay. It is about freedom from everyday life. It is a bit raw, a bit salty, and exactly why it has been our second home for so many years.